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William Baptism Day Call with You (Coyhaique), February 16, 2026

February 16, 2026 · Coyhaique

Long Monday call broken across three fragments by connection drops. Anchored by yesterday's baptism: William was baptized along with two others (a triple baptism that ran over its time slot). William's young daughter attached to you at the piano - sat on the bench with you, put her hands on yours while you played the prelude, told you "I love you" while staring up at you in the hall after the service.

William's triple baptism

Sunday February 15 was a triple baptism in Coyhaique. William was baptized along with two others; the service ran over (started late, three people = long). You and Juncker were an hour late to lunch afterward.

William's daughter (young - preschool-ish; first name not captured) attached to you during the prelude music:

Your framing: the girl's family situation is hard - parents never married and effectively separating, mom on drugs, the girl is only with her dad half the time. She holds your hand tight when you walk; "if she wasn't holding my hand, we were stopped and she wouldn't go until she held my hand." During the baptism the girl asked you "When my dad gets baptized, can I be at your side?"

My reframe to you, captured close to verbatim because it shifted you visibly on the call:

"I don't know if there's a better way to express, from Heavenly Father - a real-life angel in someone's life as you are to her. You are literally representing him, and you are there for her. How amazing is that? She is literally looking at God through you. He is showing his love for her through you."

You: "I never thought of it that way."

William's backstory

Your dog bite + mystery sickness

Sports day with the elders

The local cancha (court) is just above your house. You and Juncker played:

The gas tank delivery

Out of gas (you left the oven on overnight cooking cookies that you then forgot to take out). You called two gas-delivery places that morning:

Down there gas tanks are delivered by trucks driving around - the missionaries treat propane tank scheduling as a basic life skill. You: "I'm a propane pro, not a protein. You're right, protein."

The gay elder's goodbye gift

A recent-convert elder (whose conversion you helped) is leaving Coyhaique to study before his own mission. Yesterday was his last full day. He gave you and Juncker each a goodbye gift: a Chong-Mall makeup bag (you: "It's actually cute, I needed one") plus a cup with a handwritten letter. The letter told you you were the reason he got baptized weeks earlier - at an English class where you had asked him whether he was going to commit to the Feb 8 date and he had said he didn't know.

The conversion analogy you used in that English class, retold for me:

"God has given you this opportunity and you have your car, right? But you cannot go anywhere in your Ferrari if you don't take your key and use it. Because if you don't turn the key and turn the car on, the car is not going to do you any good. It's cool, it's awesome, and you're now rich because you have it. But if you don't use it, what's the point?"

He told you after the letter that you would work together in the States ("maybe we'll bump into each other when we're taking blood samples in the hospital or something"). You ribbed me about your demographic luck: "I love getting people. I love gay people. They love me. We're a happy family."

Venezuelan lunch and dinner with Carlos and Victoria

Lunch: Tebrepo, a Venezuelan restaurant. Pebitos (Venezuelan sandwich), patacones (savory plantain "bread" replacement). You loved both.

Dinner: with Carlos and Victoria. Drove home with them; Victoria (a nurse) gave you a shot in the car and explained the technique in real time. You translated the explanation into English for Juncker as it happened.

Tomorrow - intercambio to Coyhaique Centro

You're doing an overnight intercambio to Coyhaique Centro (different sector, same district). Pulling up a map for me - the sector colored in is yours; the area you're going to is the directly adjacent one. Juncker stays back in your normal sector. You return Thursday morning.

You showed me ICE on the map too (another district) - adjacent area visible only as a small island region. You don't think elders ever serve the actual island; it's there mostly as a checkbox.

The baptism tally

You enumerated your baptisms (people you found OR baptized, depending on Mom's vs your accounting):

Your count:

Mom argued for counting:

The President interview

You had your interview with Mackay. Walked away with "revelations I can't reveal." Won't say more.

BYU-Idaho confidence shift

Long late-fragment thread. You have been working through self-narrative: you keep hearing about peers going to BYU-Provo and feel you're missing out on that culture. Mom and I made the BYU-Idaho case:

Closing nostalgia - my dating origin with Mom

You sang Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat (which Mom remembered as my opening line in a dating situation - "Have you ever seen Joseph in the Technicolor Dreamcoat?" - Mom thought I was asking her out, but I was actually asking her roommate). Me: "Real love is hepatitis B." First date: Burger King chicken sandwich. You: "That was your first mistake."

Me on my pre-Mom dating life: "If I dated Mom first, it would have been game over. I'd had no experience, and then she would have just been like, 'this dude has no experience, I don't even want to date him anymore.'" Hence the strategy of dating all of Mom's roommates first.

Closing

Sign-off. You would call back tomorrow.

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